I remember a practice that my dad started in our household when I was a child. I don’t remember when he started it or when it ended it, but it ended after I left home. Every night before we went to bed, my dad would call all seven of us kids into the living room to read the Bible and pray together as a family. It didn’t matter what we were doing, we had to stop and go to the living room immediately. My dad sitting in his recliner would call out, “It’s time to read!” And we would all gather and spread ourselves throughout the large living room. Some of would sit on the couch and others would be sprawled on the floor. My dad would then pull out the worn old Bible story book and open it to the next story. Once he was finished reading, we would all kneel and pray. One night my dad would lead in prayer and the next night my mom would. After one of them prayed, we all would recite the Lord’s prayer together. And then it was bedtime.
It sometimes felt aggravating to stop what we were doing so we could have family devotions, but now it’s one of my favorite memories of my childhood.
There would be nights that my dad wasn’t home to read to us, so my mom would do it. On those nights, we got to choose one of the kid’s Bible story paperback books for her to read. These books were written more on a child’s level of understanding, and we loved those books. I hope one of my siblings has that book collection and read them to their children when they were young.
I’m not sure how many times my dad read through the Bible story book, but it must have been hundreds. Once he finished the last story, he would start at the beginning and read it all the way through again. And we never got tired of listening to those stories. They were still as interesting and precious to us each time they were read.
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Deuteronomy 6:6-7
I recently read an article where the writer shared a similar story of her childhood that she’s started with her own family. At dinner time every night, everyone at the table would pray out loud. The article mentioned that her dad said that if you were old enough to talk, then you could pray. So everyone did. And I think that’s a really great practice for families. Being able to pray out loud in front of others is not for the weak. I mean. No one wants to be judged for the way they pray. But sometimes it’s a bit uncomfortable to pray in front of people who are only acquaintances and not close family members.
Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6
I wonder. How many Christian families today have instilled such practices in their homes? How many parents set aside a few minutes a day for family devotions and prayer time? Is it so unusual? I mean. If you’re a faithful follower of Christ, how do you train and disciple your own children? Do you expect their Sunday School teachers, children’s church leaders and your pastor to be the only godly examples for your children?
These practices that call for spiritual growth and enrichment in a family don’t have to be perfect. At times, they might be a bit messy, depending on the age of the kids. But it’s a necessary practice to establish early in a child’s life. It gives them the safety net of learning to express and practice their faith in front of those who won’t judge them for what they say or don’t say. Teach them how to pray. Be the example they need to feel comfortable praying for others and with others. Give your kids a list of topics to pray for. Teach them the Lord’s Prayer and what it means.
Read the Bible to your kids. Most parents read books to their kids while they’re very young, so why not throw in Bible stories or the Ten Commandments or the Sermon on the Mount or the miracles of Jesus? There are so many action stories in the Bible that peak curiosity and interest in a young child, as well as teaching them how to live out their faith in difficult circumstances. There’s the story of Creation. David and Goliath. Daniel in the lion’s den. And these are just a few examples.
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4
The Apostle Paul wrote to a young man who had traveled with him on missionary trips. Timothy had been raised by godly parents and a grandmother, all who taught him the Scriptures from a young age. Paul encouraged him to continue in his faith by remembering those biblical teachings, because Paul knew the truth of those sacred teachings would never grow old. They would be a stronghold in the life of one who would be persecuted and martyred for his faith. Those same Scriptures are what will be the glue that holds us together in our times of great trial. It’s never too early to start teaching your child the sanctity of Scripture and prayer.
But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 2 Timothy 3:14-15









