I Hate This Day

I was walking through the grocery store minding my own business. Headed my way was a young mom with a little girl trailing close behind. I noticed the little girl was crying. Not outrageous crying, but she was sniffling and a bit whiny. As I got closer to them, I heard the little girl say, “I hate this day!” And she kept saying it as they continued on their way until they were out of hearing distance. I hate this day! I hate this day! I hate this day!

I wondered what on earth would cause a three-year old to declare over and over that this was the worst day ever. What had happened that morning? Did she get out of bed on the wrong side, or was she not allowed to pick out her own clothes? Did she want pancakes for breakfast and got eggs instead? Had she begged for a treat in the store and her mom refused? I have no idea. All I know is that she wasn’t happy. And her mom just kept moving forward as if she was on a mission. I thought her mission was probably to get her shopping done and get out of the store as quickly as possible before she hated the day, too.

Have you ever had one of those days that you just hate? A day that never seems to end, even if it is only ten o’clock in the morning? And all you can think of is how miserable you are. You wonder what else could happen that could make the day worse.

There are days when too many things just seem to be going in an opposite direction than we want them to. We don’t understand why life is hard. We may not know why life has turned upside down, and we can only assume why difficulties abound. We may realize that some troubles and trials are preventable and sometimes things are just out of our control. Sometimes we’re just not prepared to hear the word “No”. And the kicker? Sometimes one bad day turns into a bad week. A bad month. A bad life. Because sometimes life twists out of control and there’s no going back.

When those horrible events happen that change the course of our lives, we have to learn to pivot. We must learn to live life a new way. We may have to move. Or change jobs. Or adjust to a lengthy unemployment. We may have to rearrange our finances and standard of living. We may have to change our diet. We may have to change the way we get out of bed every morning. We may find ourselves living alone earlier in life than we ever expected. Everything in our lives may change, and we just have to go with the new flow. Like it or not.


God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear when earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea. Let the oceans roar and foam. Let the mountains tremble as the waters surge! Psalms 46:1-3


In my reading as of late, I’ve been noticing the theme of God’s provision. Provision means to provide. And when we consider God’s provision, we’re considering the ways God provides for his people. Psalm 46:1-3 tells us of different levels of God’s provision. He is our refuge. He’s our strength. He’s ready to help us when we’re in trouble.

During the days of Israel, God had cities of refuge for people facing an uncertain future. If they had unintentionally killed someone, they could live in a city of refuge and not be killed themselves. Because in those days, they believed in an eye for an eye.

God was the source of strength for his chosen people, and his strength worked through them in their battles against their enemies. God was their help. When troubles arose, God was the helper they called on. He was always ready to help.

The same holds true today for those of us who are children of God. He is our refuge, the one we turn to for safety and comfort. He’s our strength. He gives us courage and grace to walk through the unknowns of life. He is our helper. He doesn’t leave our side. We need only to call on him. We do not need to live in fear when we are faced with uncertainties. When we hate the day we’re in, God is ready to help. Oh. He may not solve our problem on the spot. But he will strengthen and uphold us with his righteous right hand.

We have to realize that we aren’t in control of our world. Sometimes we’re reminded of this in the most painful of ways, and there’s nothing we can do about it. But we don’t have to be out of control alarmed, because Jesus knows our pain. We are not at the mercy of an out of control world, even though that’s the way it seems at times. God is in control of our life events and global events at all times.

Every believer has Christ at his back, following him as he goes, with strength for every condition and trial. ~William Gurnall, The Christian in Complete Armour

We find multiple verses throughout the Bible that tell us that God will never leave us. God doesn’t make empty promises. We can trust in his providence and timing for every good thing he gives us. And when the trials of life come, he doesn’t forsake us. He will be with us in every event of our lives. These promises of God are comforting and they can give us courage to face the unknown. We can live unafraid in the face of uncertainty and troubling times, because God surrounds us with his presence.

The good news is this. Jesus will return one day to set all things right in this world. Oh. It will get worse before it gets better, but Jesus is the ultimate victor of the ages. Satan and destruction will not have the final say in this world. Our God sits on the throne in heaven and he is the King of kings and Lord of Lords. May his name be praised.

Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you. Deuteronomy 31:8

The Lord is for me, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me? Yes, the Lord is for me; he will help me. I will look in triumph at those who hate me. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in people. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in princes. Psalms 118:6-9

Don’t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, “I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.” So we can say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me?” Hebrews 13:5-6

Swaying Trees

We live in a neighborhood that backs up to a wooded area. It is breathtaking to gaze out at the trees in bloom in the springtime. And in the autumn, the colors of the turning leaves are a showstopper. Nature at its finest is my backyard.

The ground drops off to a ravine that ends in a small creek. To know that deer and fox and coyotes run loose in the space is thrilling, to say the least.

But it’s the trees that catch my attention on this day.

We’re having a windstorm and the slender trees are swaying in rhythm with the breeze. The beauty of the rhythmic swaying is almost tranquil, if I wasn’t aware of the damage one strong wind could cause.

In a wooded area, the older trees have much larger trunks than the young saplings. They’ve had the time and space and light to grow wide and tall. But the younger trees are a different story. They are thin and reedy. Wispy and willowy. They sway easily with the wind. They count on their roots to hold them steady.

The small trunked trees must grow tall in order to catch the sun’s rays. Their trunks don’t reach a fully mature size, due to the space and light restrictions. So when the windstorms come, these small trees sway with all they’ve got. It’s amazing and frightening at the same time to watch them bend with the wind. And yet, somehow at the end of the storm, they stand tall and strong. They’ve learned resilience. And strength. Their trunk may be small, but they bend as the force pushes.

But I’m wrong when I think that the wispy trees are strong and steady because of their roots. Just this morning, I noticed a casualty from the windstorm three days ago. One tiny but tall tree had been easily uprooted by the wind. The exposed roots told the story. They weren’t deep and broad. They weren’t made to withstand the strength of the wind. The tree was lying on its side among the leaves and branches fallen from another day’s wind.


Everyone who hears my teaching and applies it to his life can be compared to a wise man who built his house on an unshakeable foundation. Matthew 7:24


I work for a consulting firm that helps hospitals and other healthcare organizations prepare for and guard against disaster. Not just one kind of disaster, but many different types. Ransomware. Hacking. Phishing. Environmental. You get the idea.

This year has been a true test for our clients. It began with the pandemic. These clients had to pivot practically overnight to be able to provide care for patients infected with an unfamiliar virus. They sent some workers home to avoid exposure. They lost revenue due to canceled procedures and strategic plans gone awry. Now, just as they thought they were turning the corner, they’re facing another round of the virus.

And to top it all off, some hospitals have been hit with a disastrous ransomware attack. The bad actor, as it’s called, is unknown at this point. But it’s causing procedures to be canceled. Entire email systems have been shut down in order to avoid spreading the attack to other hospitals.

My job is to help make sure they are aware of these attacks and to fight against them. That means they should have a plan in place so they’re ready at a moment’s notice. We’ve advised clients to pull out that unused plan and dust it off. Put it into action to see if it really works. We’ve told them that now is the time to act. Don’t wait until disaster happens to start preparing.

You can’t wait until the storm comes to build a boat.

Tara Leigh Cobble

Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock. Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock. But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand. When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash. Matthew 7:24-27

I find that life is the same as the trees. We sway with the winds of change. We bend low when the momentum of the moment takes us beyond our comfort zone. We don’t know where to turn. We’re tossed on every side. And we’re unsure which is the right path. Confusion and doubt set in. We question everything that we once knew to be true.

But what have we done to prepare for the storm? Have we stored up supplies and built a reserve? Have we, through the years, held fast to our faith and followed God’s path? Have we dug into the Word and studied as though the final exam is tomorrow? How deep do our spiritual roots really go? Are we susceptible of being toppled, roots and all, from the least bit of tests and trials that blow our way? And then what? Do we still have faith to hold on?

Or. Have our roots grown deep and wide in the soil of faith? Have we built our spiritual house on rocks that won’t budge when the mightiest winds blow our way? Do we have a band of fellow warriors holding us accountable and praying for us? Do we hold onto the pylons of God’s goodness, knowing he is with us in every step of our battle?

Swaying is fine. It builds strength and perseverance. When the waves of doubt come, it’s time to dig deep to find truth. Hold onto hope. Giving voice to those doubts and looking for answers are stepping stones to building a strong faith. Don’t give up. Give in to God’s goodness and love and ride out the storm in his arms.

After we moved into our house, the city planted a tree in the green space between the sidewalk and the street. The previous tree had died, and the city replaced it. Free of charge. Oh. We didn’t get our choice of trees. It was a freebie, after all. And the next year, a city worker came by and added a stake to stabilize and straighten the small, crooked tree. This poor tree needed help as it was growing. It had begun to lean to one side and needed support in its formative years. The stake is still in place, and the tree is still leaning. But it’s growing. Perhaps, the leaning will be its signature story of its survival.

The neighbors have a tree that is leaning precariously toward another neighbor’s house. It was hit with an onslaught of wind last week, and I’m afraid one more strong burst of wind will topple it. I don’t think there’s a chance of recovery. I’m afraid it will soon be turned into mulch. While the tree looked strong and healthy, one windstorm has shown the true story of this tree’s struggle for survival.

Trees face an uncertain future if they haven’t grown firm, strong roots. Even then, the winds and storms can destroy them in one fell swoop.

If a tree falls in the forest, does it make a sound? If a person is struggling and holds in all their doubt, does it mean their pain isn’t real?

It’s in these struggling moments that we need to be prepared. We can’t wait until the storms of life are upon us to start preparing. We must act now. It’s never to late to strengthen our faith. Let’s dust off that Bible. Let’s fall on our knees and pray. Let’s attend church and fellowship with other believers. Let’s ask those questions of doubt and seek answers until we find the truth.

A house built on sand will not stand. But a house built on rock will stand strong. What is your house built on?