I was walking through the grocery store minding my own business. Headed my way was a young mom with a little girl trailing close behind. I noticed the little girl was crying. Not outrageous crying, but she was sniffling and a bit whiny. As I got closer to them, I heard the little girl say, “I hate this day!” And she kept saying it as they continued on their way until they were out of hearing distance. I hate this day! I hate this day! I hate this day!
I wondered what on earth would cause a three-year old to declare over and over that this was the worst day ever. What had happened that morning? Did she get out of bed on the wrong side, or was she not allowed to pick out her own clothes? Did she want pancakes for breakfast and got eggs instead? Had she begged for a treat in the store and her mom refused? I have no idea. All I know is that she wasn’t happy. And her mom just kept moving forward as if she was on a mission. I thought her mission was probably to get her shopping done and get out of the store as quickly as possible before she hated the day, too.
Have you ever had one of those days that you just hate? A day that never seems to end, even if it is only ten o’clock in the morning? And all you can think of is how miserable you are. You wonder what else could happen that could make the day worse.
There are days when too many things just seem to be going in an opposite direction than we want them to. We don’t understand why life is hard. We may not know why life has turned upside down, and we can only assume why difficulties abound. We may realize that some troubles and trials are preventable and sometimes things are just out of our control. Sometimes we’re just not prepared to hear the word “No”. And the kicker? Sometimes one bad day turns into a bad week. A bad month. A bad life. Because sometimes life twists out of control and there’s no going back.
When those horrible events happen that change the course of our lives, we have to learn to pivot. We must learn to live life a new way. We may have to move. Or change jobs. Or adjust to a lengthy unemployment. We may have to rearrange our finances and standard of living. We may have to change our diet. We may have to change the way we get out of bed every morning. We may find ourselves living alone earlier in life than we ever expected. Everything in our lives may change, and we just have to go with the new flow. Like it or not.
God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear when earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea. Let the oceans roar and foam. Let the mountains tremble as the waters surge! Psalms 46:1-3
In my reading as of late, I’ve been noticing the theme of God’s provision. Provision means to provide. And when we consider God’s provision, we’re considering the ways God provides for his people. Psalm 46:1-3 tells us of different levels of God’s provision. He is our refuge. He’s our strength. He’s ready to help us when we’re in trouble.
During the days of Israel, God had cities of refuge for people facing an uncertain future. If they had unintentionally killed someone, they could live in a city of refuge and not be killed themselves. Because in those days, they believed in an eye for an eye.
God was the source of strength for his chosen people, and his strength worked through them in their battles against their enemies. God was their help. When troubles arose, God was the helper they called on. He was always ready to help.
The same holds true today for those of us who are children of God. He is our refuge, the one we turn to for safety and comfort. He’s our strength. He gives us courage and grace to walk through the unknowns of life. He is our helper. He doesn’t leave our side. We need only to call on him. We do not need to live in fear when we are faced with uncertainties. When we hate the day we’re in, God is ready to help. Oh. He may not solve our problem on the spot. But he will strengthen and uphold us with his righteous right hand.
We have to realize that we aren’t in control of our world. Sometimes we’re reminded of this in the most painful of ways, and there’s nothing we can do about it. But we don’t have to be out of control alarmed, because Jesus knows our pain. We are not at the mercy of an out of control world, even though that’s the way it seems at times. God is in control of our life events and global events at all times.
Every believer has Christ at his back, following him as he goes, with strength for every condition and trial. ~William Gurnall, The Christian in Complete Armour
We find multiple verses throughout the Bible that tell us that God will never leave us. God doesn’t make empty promises. We can trust in his providence and timing for every good thing he gives us. And when the trials of life come, he doesn’t forsake us. He will be with us in every event of our lives. These promises of God are comforting and they can give us courage to face the unknown. We can live unafraid in the face of uncertainty and troubling times, because God surrounds us with his presence.
The good news is this. Jesus will return one day to set all things right in this world. Oh. It will get worse before it gets better, but Jesus is the ultimate victor of the ages. Satan and destruction will not have the final say in this world. Our God sits on the throne in heaven and he is the King of kings and Lord of Lords. May his name be praised.
Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you. Deuteronomy 31:8
The Lord is for me, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me? Yes, the Lord is for me; he will help me. I will look in triumph at those who hate me. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in people. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in princes. Psalms 118:6-9
Don’t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, “I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.” So we can say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me?” Hebrews 13:5-6

