What’s Left On the Table

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I listened to a podcast recently where the host shared that he’s begun a thorough reading of the Bible. He can quote verses and tell the Bible stories better than many Christians. It’s almost an embarrassment to people who confess to Christianity, because they don’t know the Bible as well as this man. But then. He actually reads the Bible. He just doesn’t call himself a Christian. He hasn’t repented of his sins and committed to following Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. And those who call themselves Christians and have repented of their sins and committed to following Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior don’t actually read the Bible. Seems to be a reversal of roles, in my humble opinion.

What Christians who don’t read the Bible don’t realize is that they’re missing out on getting to know God on a very personal level. By reading the Bible, we can learn the holiness and goodness of God. We can confirm that he loves us unconditionally by the way he loved his chosen people, the nation of Israel. We can learn the history of Israel, the successes and failures of the nation’s kings. We can read of the many times God’s chosen people turned their backs on him and blatantly disobeyed him. And in turn, we’ll learn that God still loved them while withholding blessings from them. We will read that God warned them many times over that he would punish them if they didn’t faithfully follow him. And we will read how that promise came about, as well as their redemption when they returned to God.

When we read the Bible, we will read the prophesies that God spoke through his appointed prophets. We will learn that God hates sin and will punish those who have unconfessed sin in their lives. We learn in the Bible that a judgment day is coming for everyone, and we will confess that Jesus is Lord. Every last one of us will confess Jesus is Lord. Think of that for a moment. There will come a day when everyone will say those words, whether out of love and adoration or fear and trembling.

We will also read that God promised to send a Messiah who would come to the world as a baby and grow to be a man to die for our sins. We would learn that that man was more than a man. He was God’s Son who came in human form to experience every temptation that we face but rejected the temptation. He was sinless. We will read that he was beaten to within an inch of his life and then hung on a wooden cross to die. To die for our sins. And we would read that he rose from the dead on the third day and now lives in heaven with his Father. He’s preparing a home for those of us who call him Lord and Savior.

I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. Galatians 2:20

Knowing all this and knowing there is still so much more in the Bible to learn, I’m convinced that those who call themselves Christian leave things on the table when they surrender their lives to Christ. Some say it’s all or nothing. And it is. We must give all of ourselves over to God so he can prune us and shape us into godly followers. We must allow our humanity, our flaws, our insecurities, our imperfections, our wants and desires, our goals and ambitions, our successes and failures to spill out on the table, so we can spend eternity with him. But we are also called to be his messengers of hope to a lost and dying world.

What am I leaving on the table in my decision to follow Christ?  It’s an all or nothing kind of deal.  I can’t confess my sins and commit to Christ and then keep my lifestyle the same.  Something has to change.  If I’m fully committed to a relationship with Christ, then I must do what it takes to get to know him intimately and personally.  

Your life as a Christian should make non-believers question their disbelief in God.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer

As a follower of Christ, I must make decisions that may be contradictory to decisions I would make in my pre-Christian life.  My friends may have to be different.  I may not be able to go to the same places I once frequented.  I may not be able to say the words I once said.  I may have to change my social and philosophical beliefs so they align with biblical truths. I may have to draw the line on old behaviors and desires.

Some may think that blending in with the crowd makes us more relatable and less offensive to those who don’t call themselves followers of Christ. But when we only give a part of ourselves to God, have we given him anything? The Bible tells us it’s all or nothing. We can’t be lukewarm and be a child of Christ.

But since you are like lukewarm water, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth! Revelation 3:16

When we don’t leave everything on the table for God, we aren’t fully surrendered to him. Oh. There may be times when we realize we’ve withheld something and we need to lay it down. But when we intentionally withhold a prized possession, whether tangible or imagined, we’re withholding a piece of our hearts that could be used by God. God’s love and goodness can’t just have visitation rights, he must have a permanent home with us. We must surrender all.

While God doesn’t place the same convictions on each of us, he does place the requirement of obedience on every follower.

The secret isn’t to know about God, it’s to know God intimately.

Out of Stock

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It was eleven thirty in the morning. The restaurant had only been open for thirty minutes. I ordered a baked potato. The server said they were out of potatoes. So I kindly asked how they could be out of potatoes when they had only been open for thirty minutes. She said the potatoes had been a popular item the evening before.

This wasn’t the first time I had encountered this issue at this particular restaurant. A time before, the out of stock item was brussels sprouts. I thought then that it must have been a one-time event, but now I’ve concluded that the manager doesn’t prepare for busy weekend diners. They don’t plan far enough in advance for popular menu items. And I’m assuming that food deliveries aren’t made on weekends. So, I knew I wouldn’t be the only customer to face a lack of potatoes since it was early in the day. First world problem. I know.

Perhaps, the manager sees their management style as one of good stewardship. They don’t want to over plan and then have potatoes growing eyes. But really. It’s a restaurant. They’re open seven days a week. People order baked potatoes all the time. So, what this manager may see as good stewardship, the disappointed customer sees as poor management. The customer isn’t satisfied. They see poor planning and lack of concern for the customer’s satisfaction. Doesn’t the manager know that disappointed customers may choose not to return? And they most definitely will tell others about the lack of popular items. It doesn’t seem to be a win/win situation in the eyes of the disappointed customer.

I’ve heard that the customer is always right. So, is that really true? Is there ever a time when the customer is flat out wrong? I know. It depends on the situation.

Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter. Matthew 7:21

As another story goes, there were ten virgins heading to a wedding. The bridegroom was delayed, so these ten fell asleep. They awoke to the sounds that the bridegroom was on his way. Five of the virgins had thought ahead and brought extra oil for their lamps. The other five did not, and they asked for the others to share. The five with extra oil said no. If they shared, then they too would run out before the bridegroom arrived. So they trimmed their lamps and headed out to the party. The other five had to run back into town and get more. As they were getting their supply of oil, the bridegroom arrived and they weren’t at the meeting spot. Once the door to the party was shut, no one else was permitted to enter. When the last five virgins arrived, they weren’t allowed entry. They were too late. They were left standing outside while the party carried on indoors.

You can read the story of the ten virgins in Matthew 25:1-13.

You may wonder how baked potatoes and virgins are related. Well. They aren’t. But the moral of the story is preparation. The manager of the store needs to be prepared to serve any item on the menu at all times. Lack of planning on his part should not constitute an emergency for anyone else. But it does. And angry customers may never return. The situation is easily avoidable.

The virgins in the story are another matter. Half of them planned for waiting an extended period of time, and the other half did not. Those who were prepared were rewarded for their faithfulness in planning. They were allowed to celebrate with the bridegroom. The others were left behind. They could not and would not be allowed entry, regardless of having received an invitation.

As believers, we must prepare for our eternal meeting with Christ. We must repent of our sins. But then the work to become more Christlike begins. And that work is ongoing. Until we breathe our last breath, we must pursue a deepening relationship with Christ. Our walk must match our talk. If we say we’re Christians and are following Christ, then our actions must line up with our words. If we say we believe the Bible, are we living like the Bible tells us to? We can’t talk out of both sides of our mouth. Sounding Christian while we’re at church and then acting like the devil the rest of the week doesn’t work with God. We must be prepared at all times to meet our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. He is our Bridegroom. If we aren’t prepared to meet him, he may come to take us to our eternal home and we’ll miss it.

Oh. The Bible tells us that the gate to heaven is narrow, but the gate to hell is wide. We need to make sure we’re heading toward the narrow gate, for it is the gate to eternal life. We can’t allow ourselves to be fooled by following the large crowd walking the wide path, for we may find ourselves on a path straight to hell and wonder how we missed heaven.

You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it. Matthew 7:13-14

The Chosen

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I’ve begun watching the third season of The Chosen. I’ve already watched the first two seasons, so I thought I might as well see the next one. Just so you know. I’m not a fan of the series. I believe too many non-biblical liberties have been taken with the script. I also know that, in order to create a complete story, unknown elements must be added. Conversations and scenarios must be created. Unknown personalities must become known. My concern with the series is the unnecessary interpretation of events. I take issue with additions that distort the truth of the biblical stories. But those issues are for another day.

I have, however, been pleasantly surprised with some scenes in this third season that cause my imagination to take over. I wonder how I would respond if I were in the same situation as these twelve disciples. I wonder if I would be gracious or anxious. Would I become angry or repentant if I didn’t find the healing I wanted or needed when I saw others being healed? Would I be willing to leave family and home for weeks on end to tell a new story of the Promised Messiah I was now following? Would I be willing to risk everything, even my life, for a message many didn’t understand or want to hear?

The scenes that most take me by surprise are the ones where the twelve disciples are learning to really trust who Jesus says he is. They’ve said they will follow him. And then he commissions them to go out into different towns and villages two by two to share his message. He gives them the power to heal and perform miracles. He gives them the authority to cast out demons. And then they’re just supposed to go do it. And they know they’re only human. How can they heal sick people? And how can they perform miracles similar to what they see of Jesus? Who does he think they are? After all. They’re a gnarly group from different walks of life. Several were fishermen. One a tax collector. One a nationalist. Another would become a traitor. They weren’t best friends, yet together they forged a lifelong commitment to a cause that would disrupt the entire world for all times.

Imagine the humanity in these men as they performed their first miracles. The shock and awe that they had the same power that Jesus had when they see the person in front of them healed of an ailment. Deaf men hear. Blind people see. And when Jesus walked on the water to them as they were rowing in the nighttime storm, they knew he wasn’t a ghost. But how could he walk on water in the middle of a storm in the dark of night? How much trust and faith did it actually take to follow the Messiah in person? To talk with him face to face. To walk the dusty roads with him. To break bread with him. It was unusual, to say the least. Never had such a person walked the face of the earth. And never again would someone of his caliber come to earth.

Go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Matthew 28:19

When they sat with the crowd of five thousand listening to Jesus preach, they knew everyone had traveled a long way. No one had thought to bring lunch. And they sat listening to the Messiah speak for hours on end. Stomachs growled. People became restless. One small boy had brought his lunch. Five loaves of barley bread and two small fish. Hardly enough to feed such a large crowd of people. But Jesus blessed the food, and something amazing happened as the twelve began to distribute it. Everyone was fed and twelve baskets of food were left over. The disciples were in as much amazement as the crowd. And by the way. Where did the baskets come from?

Something much bigger than man was happening in the lives of those who followed the Messiah. They had personal contact with the Son of God. They ate with him. They traveled with him. They talked with him. They knew him personally, yet there was much they didn’t know or understand. He seemed to speak in riddles. He showed kindness to those who were unkind. He meted out words of anger and judgment to those desecrating the Temple. He knew information about people before he ever met them.

These twelve men were to share the news of this man’s message throughout the world. And they did so willingly. Oh. It was at a cost. They had to leave family behind. They were instructed not to carry extra clothes or food with them. They weren’t always welcomed in the towns they visited. But they went anyway.

One day Jesus called together his twelve disciples and gave them power and authority to cast out all demons and to heal all diseases. Then he sent them out to tell everyone about the Kingdom of God and to heal the sick. “Take nothing for your journey,” he instructed them. “Don’t take a walking stick, a traveler’s bag, food, money, or even a change of clothes. Wherever you go, stay in the same house until you leave town. And if a town refuses to welcome you, shake its dust from your feet as you leave to show that you have abandoned those people to their fate.” So they began their circuit of the villages, preaching the Good News and healing the sick. Luke 9:1-6

I wonder. If I had lived during the time Jesus lived on earth, would I have eagerly listened to his message? Would I have believed that he was the Promised Messiah? Would I have accepted the call to follow him? Would I have agreed to tell others a new message that stood in contrast to the Jewish laws of the day? Would I have been willing to risk my life for him?

The question is. Am I willing to do the same today?

If My Dad Was God For A Day

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She was writing the final paper for her senior year in college. The professor assigned the topic for the class. They had to answer one question. What would the world be like if your dad was made God for a day? This woman felt she was at a huge disadvantage. She grew up in a home with a single mom and little to no contact with her earthly father. So. How would the world be different if her earthly father played God for the day?

This woman said that her thoughts and opinions shaped the world and God’s place in it based on who her earthly father was. She perceived God to be absentee, unpredictable and emotionally disconnected, uninterested in her life. That was almost a mirror reflection of her relationship with her earthly father. She realized she had an inaccurate view of God and needed to change it. So, the following year she enrolled in seminary so she could learn a more accurate understanding of who God is.

Not all kids growing up in the same household have identical view of their fathers. Each kid’s personality and strengths and weaknesses are different, so a father will interact with each child in a unique way. Some who knew my dad might see him in a different light than how I see him. If they were telling this story, he might look a bit different. But isn’t it the same when we have opposing views of God? We may see God differently than someone else does. It all depends on our experiences and our views of many different elements of life.

It is an interesting question. And I thought I would put it to the test. What would the world be like if my dad was made God for a day? I’m basing my description on my dad’s chosen life’s work, not on his personality traits or strengths and weaknesses.

My dad was a farmer, so you could say that he worked from home. A normal day in the life of my dad would see him working on his farm. His workday would start with feeding the pigs. Then, he might sort the pigs into different categories. He would consider which ones were ready to be sold for slaughter and which ones to keep for growing the herd. If some pigs were ready to give birth, he would move them to the nursery. The job of a pig farmer seemed to revolve around sorting and feeding his pigs.

Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God, the Almighty. Revelation 4:8

On another day, my dad might work in the fields from morning until evening. In the spring, he would plant corn and soybeans. In the fall, he would plant the wheat and harvest the corn and beans. He would harvest the wheat in the summer or early fall. The work of a grain farmer consists of cultivating the ground, planting the seed and harvesting the crops. And praying for rain.

There was always work to be done in the fields. The soil had to be prepared for the crops that would be planted. There was plowing and cultivating the ground in order to soften the soil, because the soil had to be ready to accept the seeds that were sown in it. Once the crops were growing, fertilizer would be added for a plentiful harvest. At certain times in the growing process, he would till the land to remove weeds that had popped up between the rows of crops. If weeds weren’t removed, they could overtake the crop and there would be no harvest. Weeds had to be kept under control.

As farming methods progressed, my dad would use the no-till method of planting where the soil would not be disturbed until the seed hit the ground. The previous crop that had died back would be left in the field, and a new crop would be planted directly over it. This would prevent soil erosion. There was never any expectation that the seeds would plant themselves or the crops would harvest themselves. The farmer must do the work of planting and harvesting.

A farmer’s work is never done. If my dad wasn’t working in the fields or with the pigs, he might be repairing his farm equipment. There were tractors, combines, trucks, plows, disks, cultivators, planters and possibly other tools I can’t quite recall. The man was busy from morning to night. And on beautiful sunny evenings, he would load his family in the pickup truck to drive around the countryside admiring the fields of crops.

Everyone may not agree with my dad’s method of farming, but his work always produced great results. His crops produced a higher yield that other farmers in the area. He knew that the secret to a huge harvest was to start with healthy soil and the best seeds. My dad had a proper understanding of raising healthy and productive crops.

Now knowing what a day in the life of a farmer looks like, what would the day look like if he was God? With my dad’s background in farming, I could see him as a nurturing God. As a discipler and a disciplinarian. He would be interested in feeding the souls of his people, but he would also discipline those who are going astray from his teachings. He would mentor those who are eager to know more about him and what makes him holy. He would sort the wheat from the chaff, the good fruit from the rotting fruit.

If my dad was God for a day, he would produce a huge harvest, because he had been faithful with the little he had been given. His crops would be able to provide for many who are less fortunate. He would feed the hungry and teach them how to feed themselves. His hard work would not be in vain. His talents were proven to be good, and he loved his work.

Not everyone approves of God’s ways, but his work always produces the best results. Perfect results, actually. He can do no wrong. The good news for my dad and for everyone is that he will never be God. There is only one God, and no one compares to him. And when we look at the truth of God that is found in Scripture, there’s only one story to tell about God. Our opinions and life experiences don’t change who God is or what he does.

Selling Soap

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I meet with my friend once a month, and we talk for hours. I told her that I recently discovered that I have crossed the threshold into old age. I think I had shingles. And only old people get shingles. Right? And I told her that I had been going to the local farmers market every Saturday morning. One of the vendors that I found is a soap maker. I’ve begun buying my soap and shampoo from this family. After the shingles popped up, I visited my local soap maker and unexpectedly found a soap called Problem Skin. After using it for a few days on my itchy skin and then covering it with beef tallow, I discovered that the shingles were gone. And boy. Was I ever relieved. The soap lady even suggested using their salve to help with the nerve pain. And it worked, too.

Oh. I wasn’t looking for a soap called Problem Skin to soothe my itchy skin, but I found it anyway. I didn’t even know that a homemade soap could be used as a treatment for shingles, as well as for eczema and poison ivy and other rashes. But the soap actually works. I’m amazed and relieved.

My friend and I also talked about many other things that day. We talked about our faith. We talked about politics and conspiracy theories. We talked about work. We talked about family. We prayed together. And as we sat out in the warm sunshine, the time together felt like a breath of fresh air. It was good to be with her again.

I realized later how simple and easy it was to tell her about the new soap I had found that helped with my itchy skin. If I’ve found a treatment that works for me, why wouldn’t I want to tell others about it? Maybe it would work for them, too. I’m no doctor, so don’t take this as medical advice. I just know that it worked for me.

I recalled how the soap maker had explained some of the other soaps in her shop. She told me how she used the shampoo soap and now only needed to wash her hair once a week. Another soap she mentioned had one ingredient that was a natural deodorant. She bathes with the soap and hasn’t used deodorant in over ten years. She was excited to explain all the different natural soaps she and her husband made. She didn’t hesitate to talk about her life’s work, and she placed a business card in the bag with each purchase. She wanted everyone to know about her handmade soap. And she wanted others to share it with their family and friends.

The husband and wife soap making team are in the process of handing the business over to the next generation. They’re busy teaching soap making to their daughter and son-in-law, so the family can continue the small business for many more years.

But how can they call on him to save them unless they believe in him? And how can they believe in him if they have never heard about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them? And how will anyone go and tell them without being sent? That is why the Scriptures say, “How beautiful are the feet of messengers who bring good news!” Romans 10:14-15

If it’s so easy to tell someone about a new product I’ve found, why isn’t it easy to tell someone about the God I serve? Why isn’t it easy to tell them how he is the best and most trusted friend I’ve ever found? Why isn’t it easy to tell them that he loves me unconditionally, and he loves everyone equally? Why isn’t it easy for me to tell someone else who is also made in God’s image that they too can have a close personal relationship with him? Why isn’t it easy for me to tell someone that God forgave all my sins, and he’ll forgive theirs too if they ask? I would hope someone would tell me about God if I hadn’t learned about him early on in my life. Why would anyone hide such good news?

If we call ourselves Christians and really believe without a shadow of a doubt that the Bible is God’s Good News to the world, why do we keep quiet about it? Oh. We are quick to say that we are supposed to hide God’s Word in our hearts so that we might not sin against him. We are only fooling ourselves if we think that means we’re to keep the good news to ourselves. What that verse is telling us is that we need to study God’s Word and make it real in our lives. But do we even do that?

I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you. Psalms 119:11

And then, what about the verse that asks how people can believe in God if they never hear about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them? How do we explain keeping our lips sealed when we know the secret to eternal life and keep it only to ourselves?

Just as the soap lady is so eager to share her message, all who call themselves followers of Christ must willingly share the Good News that has been shared with us.

How much do you have to hate somebody to not proselytize? How much do you have to hate someone to believe everlasting life is possible and not tell them that?

Penn Jillette

Even Penn Jillette, the outspoken atheist magician, knows that if the good news of Jesus Christ is actually true, then we who believe must not keep it to ourselves. And he is right. Maybe calling the act of silence hatred seems a bit strong, but keeping quiet about a life-saving faith certainly doesn’t sound very loving, either.

No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. Matthew 5:15

Crabgrass Invasion

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The Israelites were at it again. They were disobeying God. Oh. Jerusalem had been destroyed by the Babylonian king, Nebuchadnezzar, but he left a remnant of Jews in the land. God had sent him to destroy the city of his favored people, because they had ignored his commands and disobeyed him for generations. They worshipped false gods. They lived in wickedness and even sacrificed their own children to these false gods.

Then when their lives were devastated by the destruction of their city and country, they ran to the prophet Jeremiah asking him to pray for them. They wanted a message from God. They wanted God to tell them what to do and where to go. And they told Jeremiah that they would do whatever God told them to do. Even if they disagreed with God’s command, they would still do it. Scouts honor.

Ten days later, Jeremiah came back to them with a message from God. And the one thing they didn’t want to hear was what they heard. Oh. They had already made up their minds that they were going to run to Egypt and escape the hardship of living in their desolate homeland of Judah. They wanted an easy life, and they thought they would find it in Egypt. But God said no. Stay in Judah. Do not go to Egypt. So they got mad and accused Jeremiah of lying. They were furious. How could they be expected to stay in a land they wanted to leave?

The remnant of people left Judah and went to Egypt, in full knowledge that they were disobeying God’s direct command. They had heard the warning that if they went to Egypt they would never leave there alive. They heard how they would die from war, famine or disease. Their stubborn hearts would not consider surrendering to God’s invitation to rebuild their lives in their homeland. Their hardened hearts would not allow them to believe God when he told them they no longer had to fear the king of Babylon. They didn’t listen when he told them that he would be merciful to them by making the Babylonian king kind to them. So they left knowing full well that God’s anger and fury would follow them to Egypt. They heard God’s warning that they would never see their homeland again. And they went anyway.

God knew the Judeans would disobey him when they said earlier that they would obey him even if they didn’t want to. He knew they had their hearts set on going to Egypt. He knew they would disobey him. And he allowed them to disobey. He allowed them to go and destroy their lives even further.

You can read this part of Judah’s story in Jeremiah 42-44.

So why do you keep calling me ‘Lord, Lord!’ when you don’t do what I say? Luke 6:46

I did some weeding in my flowerbed one morning while it wasn’t too warm outside. I had been noticing that crabgrass had begun forming a border along the driveway and sidewalk. It wasn’t a look that spoke to my heart, so I set out to remove the unwanted weed. As I pulled on the weeds, they came up easily. But I noticed in a couple of places where I pulled up the crabgrass that the concrete was damaged. I’m no expert of weeds, so I don’t know if crabgrass would damage a sidewalk. Or, does crabgrass thrive in concrete areas that are already weak or cracked? I don’t know.

All I knew was that I needed to get control of the crabgrass before it fully invaded my yard. I couldn’t let even a little bit stick around or it would soon destroy any remaining grass. Weeds left untended will take over an entire space. The ugly, unsightful weeds will cause harm where least expected. Not only crabgrass but any other weed left to its own devices will take control.

The problem was that I didn’t remove all the crabgrass that day. The sun was shining, and it became warm. I was uncomfortable, so I didn’t finish the job. And I didn’t walk far enough down the sidewalk to see how far the crabgrass had spread. I went indoors to my cool air-conditioned house knowing full well that I had left some crabgrass to grow freely. I didn’t seem to bother me, or I would have stayed outside and removed it.

God won’t force obedience on anyone. He won’t force us to do anything we don’t want to do. But if he requires something of us, then not doing so is an act of disobedience. God knows what is best for us, even if we don’t like his plans. He won’t lead us down some dark and dusty path and leave us all alone. And if we allow the weeds of disobedience and sin to grow in the corners of our hearts and minds, then we leave ourselves open to moral and ethical rot and decay. Sin separates us from God.

God never condones sin. He never approves of words or actions that he has already said go against his will. But he will punish disobedience. And that disobedience if left untouched will lead us to death and destruction for eternity, if we don’t remove it from our lives.

But the good news is this. He will forgive our sins when we confess them.

Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:13

True Love

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They were told their marriage wouldn’t last. They were too old and set in their ways. He was twenty-six. She was twenty-three. Old in the eyes of some, but to others they were still wet behind the ears. Heeding no one’s advice, they tied the knot in front of close family in her parents’ living room. Her father, who said he would never give away his daughters, escorted her down the stairs to the waiting groom. She took the young man’s hand and pledged her life to his. With rings on their fingers, they were bound by law, love and life.

Oh. They didn’t wait long to start their family. Some thought they rushed into parenthood, but when the stars align there’s no going back. And after fifteen years of marriage, they were a family of nine. Oh yes. People would stop and count to see how many kids were in the station wagon. No. They weren’t Catholic. And no. Minivans weren’t invented yet.

Theirs was a solid marriage built on their love for God and each other. Early in their marriage, they committed their lives and marriage to God and never looked back. They were faithful church attenders, tithers, and Bible readers. They were also faithful to each other.

There was never any discussion about divorce or separation. Theirs was a love that would last through the ages of time. They laughed and joked. They cried and mourned. Theirs was a steadfast commitment. Oh. Someone once pulled a prank and called the house phone suggesting he was involved with another woman. He laughed it off. She did not. Their love was not in the market for competition.

As they celebrated their golden anniversary, she said she thought only old people were married for fifty years. She still saw herself as a young woman, but her mind and body were betraying her. Little did she know that in ten short years, she would walk the streets of gold and meet her Savior face to face. Days later, he would join his wife in the city eternal.

They aged. Their minds and memories faded. At times, she would forget he was her husband. He never forgot. Near the end, he commented that she was the most precious woman in the world. And as he was placed on hospice, he said he would wait for her. When asked if he got tired of waiting, he said no, not for her. And wait he did. She passed unexpectedly in her sleep, and he breathed his last breath eleven days later.

Their final caregivers saw a lasting love and commitment between the two. And they held a deep admiration for this couple who missed their sixty year anniversary by less than ninety days. True love and commitment are an example we all should strive for in our marriages. Through thick and thin. In sickness and in health. For richer or for poorer. Till death do us part. That was the commitment they had made years earlier, and that commitment never faded. That commitment was never questioned.

When I think of the memories I most cherish, I think of my parents and their love for each other. Their marriage wasn’t perfect, but it was centered on their love of God and each other and their family.

In Hot Pursuit

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Out of all the people on the earth, God chose the nation of Israel to be his chosen people. In other words, they’re his favorites. And we can’t do anything about that. Oh. It’s obvious that other nations and peoples have tried to eradicate his favorites. But they haven’t quite been able to do so. And they never will. No matter how desperate they are. No matter how evil their attempts are. No matter how often they try. God’s chosen nation will not be eliminated. God said so himself.

But his favored nation, who once lived in obedience to his commands, has rejected him time and time again. The words that make up the Old Testament list many people and kings who flat out rejected God’s command to obey him. That’s all he asked. Obedience to his will. And that was too much for so many people for so many years. Sure. A new king would come along and choose to bow to God’s will, and so the nation would turn to God. But once another king was on the throne and chose not to obey God, the nation returned to their idol worship and disobedience.

After many years of refusing to bow to him, God had had enough. Sure. God is a patient God. But over time, God became impatient. He is a jealous God and yearns for his people to have a heart for him and him alone. He sent prophets to give warnings of the destruction and devastation that was ahead for them if they continued in their sinful ways. But they ignored the pleas. They went about their lives enjoying success and freedom, yet their hearts were full of pride and sin. Year after year. Prophet after prophet. The Israelites deliberately chose to ignore God’s warning.

But the thing is. God never gave up on them. His love for his chosen people was so deep and so wide and so long that he pursued them. And he pursued them passionately. He was angry and sad, but he never gave up on them. God will pursue his people tirelessly.

And then the awful thing that he had promised would happen did happen. His chosen people were attacked and many were taken captive to Babylon. Oh. They had been warned about this. They would be held captive for seventy years. And still. Those who remained in Jerusalem lived lives of debauchery. Not even the fact that many of their family members and friends had been taken captive changed their hearts. They wouldn’t surrender to God Almighty. They were a stubborn people.

God continued to warn his people in Jerusalem through the prophet Jeremiah. He told them that everyone who remained there would die from war, famine or disease. They should surrender to the Babylonians and survive. But they were stubborn. They said no.

Another prophet, Ezekiel, was among those taken captive to Babylon. He too spoke of the atrocities that would overtake Jerusalem. And God told him that although he would continue to pursue his people, Ezekiel’s words would fall on deaf ears.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

In his twenties, Nebuchadnezzar found himself in command of an empire where he served for over forty years. He was king of Babylon who directed the capture and fall of Jerusalem. During the very early years of his reign, Jerusalem was one of several kingdoms he successfully captured. He was a valiant warrior. He was also a very religious man. Oh. He didn’t serve one god. He served many gods. And these gods were useless, but he wouldn’t admit it. He required his people to worship his gods. If they didn’t, they could face the death penalty.

In his wartime efforts, Nebuchadnezzar captured many young men to serve in his kingdom. He required them to attend a three year re-education program to indoctrinate them in Babylonian customs and practices. He was looking to erase all the years of religious learning they had received in their homeland. He wanted long lasting commitment from them. Or they would pay the price.

During his years as king, a Jewish exile named Daniel earned many promotions and accolades from Nebuchadnezzar. Although Daniel had graduated from the Babylonian training program, his loyalty to God did not waver. Oh. He passed the tests and greatly impressed the king with his knowledge of Babylonian royalty, but all the learning didn’t faze his belief in God. And through different events, Nebuchadnezzar knew this. Yet he didn’t punish Daniel, because at different points in his reign, Nebuchadnezzar needed to hear the wisdom God spoke through Daniel. Sure. Daniel was tested in his position as advisor to the king. His life was put on the line, but he always spoke the truth to the king.

As Daniel faithfully served God by serving Nebuchadnezzar, God pursued the king. Through Daniel, God challenged Nebuchadnezzar’s commitment to other gods. Gods that could do nothing for him. Yet he was stubborn. He admitted that God was a god, but he wouldn’t commit to God being the One True God.

Until he did.

Nebuchadnezzar had a bad dream. Once again. And when Daniel shared the meaning of the dream, Nebuchadnezzar learned his fate. He was to live as a wild animal for seven periods of time before returning to rule his kingdom. And he would only return to rule once he bowed in submission to God. The One True God. Over time, Nebuchadnezzar’s dream came true. All of it. The good. The bad. And the ugly. And after his sanity was restored and his faith in God was sure, he returned to lead his kingdom.

God never stopped pursuing Nebuchadnezzar. Along the way, there was one faithful witness who always spoke to him of God and God’s need for surrender. Daniel never gave up on the king. And God didn’t either.

If God had stopped in his pursuit of mankind, he never would have called on his only Son to die for our sins. He made a way for all who are born to have eternal life with him. Let’s not reject the free gift he offered to us. The gift is free for us, but it was a huge sacrifice on his part.

God will pursue people for many years. Even when they continually ignore him or deny him. He is in hot pursuit. And I have to believe that during God’s pursuit of those needing him, he will place faithful followers in their path to speak words of truth. Words of conviction. And words of love. We must never forget that God loves each of us and wants all of us to bow to him in this lifetime. Because even if we don’t now, there will be a day when we bow in acknowledgment of his divinity and power.

As believers, we must never give up praying for those lost loved ones. We must never give up our faithful witness, because our lives and words of God’s love are what they need. They may not admit it, but God works in mysterious ways his wonders to perform. Let’s not discount God’s faithfulness.

The Art of Doing Hard Things

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So then there’s Jeremiah. He was a prophet who shared God’s message of impending doom to the people of Israel and Judah. The problem is. They didn’t listen to him. They mocked him. They shunned him. They threatened him. They ignored him. They didn’t like him. They wanted him dead. But they didn’t kill him. Oh. He suffered physically and mentally. He lived with deep anguish. He wanted to give up. He asked God why he was even born. He wondered if it would have been better if he had been born dead. But he wasn’t. He was to live the life that God had laid out for him. Every single day. Whether the day was good or bad. He was used by God to warn his people that they must repent and turn from their sinful ways.

And then God asked the impossible of him. God told him not to marry and have children. God said that if he did, his family would be among other families to die horrible deaths. They would have no one to mourn or bury them.

The Lord gave me another message. He said, “Do not get married or have children in this place. For this is what the Lord says about the children born here in this city and about their mothers and fathers: They will die from terrible diseases. No one will mourn for them or bury them, and they will lie scattered on the ground like manure. They will die from war and famine, and their bodies will be food for the vultures and wild animals.” Jeremiah 16:1-4

Jeremiah was involved in political and religious events during his day. He was a spiritual leader who faithfully served God. He showed great courage as he shared God’s word with God’s chosen people. He spoke on the Lord’s behalf to a people who didn’t want to hear what he had to say. He felt great sorrow as he saw his nation moving toward destruction. If only they listened, they could be spared future devastation. His was not an easy life.

For his entire career, Jeremiah served in a position where he was unfairly treated and criticized. His words fell on deaf ears, but others felt free to speak ill of him. Oh. He was born into a family of priests. That was his expected line of work. But somehow. God had other plans for him. He was a God ordained prophet who was given the task of sharing God’s impending punishment on a people who despised him. His was not an easy job.

Jeremiah held a deep love for his fellow Israelites, yet he knew the punishment headed their way if they didn’t return to obeying God. He was also deeply concerned about his personal safety, because he knew that speaking directly against the fallen people put a bullseye on his back. Yet he stood faithful in delivering God’s message of impending judgment.

This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9

I think of the young woman who was a collegiate swimmer. Her plan was to attend dental school, yet she somehow finds herself in another profession at this moment. After being a victim of unfair discrimination, she speaks out against the ideology that men participating in women’s sports is fair. She has stood in a women’s locker room with a male posing as a female and has felt the discomfort the situation caused for her and her female teammates. She has remained faithful to her call for only women to participate in women’s sports. Yet she is ridiculed and persecuted for speaking the truth. She has felt the bitter sting of rejection. She has been isolated and physically assaulted, yet she continues with her message. She now expects to see protesters at any event where she is scheduled to speak. She knows they are out to silence her. Yet she still speaks.

Oh. Her message isn’t one of spiritual salvation, yet it is significant. If falsehoods are accepted as truth in any area of life, then biblical truths are also on the line. This young woman is no prophet or biblical scholar, yet she is a faithful believer in Jesus Christ. She has accepted the call to be a voice for young women coming behind her who may also be asked to step aside for a lie. She doesn’t want anyone else to be in a situation similar to hers.

Sure. There are those who support her message of fairness. Behind closed doors, they too tell her they want to save women’s sports. But those who show support in private are silent in public. Shame on them. I get it. They’re fearful for their jobs. Their career may be on the line if they challenge the new status quo. They don’t want to be cancelled or sued. So they stay silent. But if no one speaks up, then women’s sports is a thing of the past.

The message of truth is offensive to those who deny it, but it doesn’t make the truth less powerful. Being offended doesn’t change the truth. But the messenger of truth must remain faithful, at all costs.

In no way am I trying to compare a college swimmer to a Jewish prophet, but they both showed tremendous courage when called upon to speak truth to those who opposed it. They and many others who dare to show courage in uncertain times are to be applauded and thanked. Their example of faithful obedience is a lesson each of us must learn. Who knows when we may be called on to stand for truth and face the difficulties of doing so. Hard times may come upon us, but we must let the example of those who come before us embolden us to always be a voice for truth.

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalms 46:1

Faithful Witness

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Daniel worked with King Nebuchadnezzar for roughly thirty years. During that time, Daniel had many opportunities to be a godly example to the king. In the way he carried himself. In the way he made decisions and interacted with others. In the way he led his team of wise men. In the way he helped rule the nation. And he always prayed three times a day at the window in his house. During these prayers, we’ve got to believe that he was praying for his job, his boss the king, and for those under his authority. He no longer had a family. His job was his life. He had been brutally taken from his home in Jerusalem and marched to Babylon as a teenager. And he lived there the rest of his life serving kings, always serving the man in charge. For seventy years, he served the kings who ruled Babylon.

King Nebuchadnezzar wasn’t much older than Daniel. I wouldn’t say they became friends, but they both had deep respect for the other. Although they worshipped different gods, Nebuchadnezzar never required Daniel to give up his faith in the One True God. Nebuchadnezzar saw the One True God as just one of the many gods, but he didn’t worship God. He only acknowledged him as a god.

Daniel was faithful through all his years of exiled service. He didn’t lose his faith. His faith only strengthened over time, because his sole source of strength was God. As a young child in Jerusalem, Daniel never expected to leave his home or country. He never realized that he would be taken prisoner and held captive for the remainder of his life. Yet that’s where he found himself. Who knows what level of power he could have attained if he had been able to stay in Jerusalem. He was most likely from a noble family and was headed toward a career within royalty serving a Jewish king. Instead he found himself serving Babylonian king in hostile territory.

We won’t ever what he could have done in Jerusalem. But we do know what he did in Babylon. And that was noble and notable. It was the sacrifice of a lifetime. And he had no say in any of it. His role was to serve God faithfully wherever he was placed. And that is what he did. It wasn’t a job he chose. It wasn’t a nation he chose. It wasn’t the life he chose. But he found himself there, regardless. And there was nothing he could do to change that. He was a prisoner, but he held a high position in the country. King Nebuchadnezzar respected him and looked to his advice as solid and trustworthy.

Daniel had many opportunities through the years to live out his faith among the courts. Imagine being in a position for thirty years with one boss who didn’t believe in your God but allowed you the freedom to pursue your faith. Even when it wasn’t the faith of the nation. The king had witnessed God’s work in Daniel’s life and in his own life, because there were time when he called on Daniel to solve his problems. Daniel, of course, called on his God, the Host of heavens armies, to show him how to identify and present this problem to the king. Daniel didn’t try to do that work on his own. And God showed his majestic power to King Nebuchadnezzar through Daniel.

Daniel always consulted God first. And God gave him the ability to perform difficult tasks. Tasks such as telling the king what he had dreamed and then interpreting it. Even if it was bad news. It’s easy to say that Daniel had a way with words, but God filled him with humility, kindness and deep respect for this king. This was a king Daniel didn’t necessarily approve of but was strong armed into serving him. At some point, Nebuchadnezzar must have been dishonoring the poor and elderly, because Daniel called him out on these two issues. The king had such high respect for Daniel that he expected Daniel to always speak truthfully. In this particular moment, the truth that Daniel had to share was a very difficult message. Yet he spoke the truth courageously.

Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise. Hebrews 10:23

When we think of our lot in life, we may feel that we’ve been given the short stick. We may think that we are owed a grand and glorious life, but somehow it has evaded us. We consider our family, where we live, and who we work with. We think of our loved ones who aren’t living for God, who aren’t obeying Him or who may just tolerate our faithful living. They know we attend church every week. They know we read our Bible and pray. They may know that we give part of our income to the church. They hear the comments we make consciously and unconsciously letting them know of our faithfulness to God. It doesn’t go unnoticed.

Neighbors notice when we back out of our driveway every Sunday to go to church. They notice when cars pull in our driveway to attend a Bible study. They hear our language. They notice our demeanor. They see our lives. They see our temperament. They witness our lives on a daily basis. Knowing that we say we are followers of Christ, they watch to make sure we live up to the standard they have set for us. They set an unvoiced standard for Christ followers, even though their standard might not line up with ours. You can count on that.

Our witness counts. Our faithful witness counts. Even though we may not recognize it as a witness. We may not recognize that our day by day, week by week, month by month and year by year life is a witness to those around us. We have people in our lives who aren’t following God, whether it’s family, friends, neighbors, co-workers or bosses. There may come a time when we have the opportunity and responsibility to speak biblical truth to them. We must not hesitate. And yet. They still have the option to refuse Christ’s open invitation. But we will know that we’ve been faithful in our witness.

Our friends may get annoyed with our words about Jesus Christ’s sacrifice by dying on the cross for them. They may become frustrated when we share that they need salvation. They may ignore the message. They also might become convicted and repent of their sins. But they can never say they haven’t heard the message of salvation. The words that we’re speaking, and the life we’re living is faithfulness to God. God is faithful, and he will not let his word return void. So we must continue to live our lives faithfully for God in front of those who are living in direct disobedience to him. Our witness counts. Our witness matters. Our witness must remain faithful, because we don’t know when our witness will cause another to turn to Christ. We may be the only Jesus in their lives. Let’s do right by him. Let’s honor his Word and his sacrifice.

Oh. May all who come behind us find us faithful.