I’ve never lived alone until I moved almost three months ago. And the only reason I’m living alone now is because my husband is still working in our former city. He comes home as often as he can, and he’ll be here full-time in a few months. So I’m learning what it’s like to be alone more often than I’m with others. Oh. I get out often enough. That’s not the problem.
Here’s the problem. I’ve run into more issues living on my own these past three months than is necessary, in my humble opinion. Take for example, the plumber was here twice in the first month to repair a leak in the kitchen. Then we learned that some of the ductwork in our crawlspace was not connected to the vents.
There are the car problems I had within the first month after moving. And the resulting purchase of a new car. Then there’s the leaky roof a couple of weeks ago after a heavy rain. The next day when the hvac repairman were here to install new ductwork, they discovered water in the crawlspace. The man of the house who was in another state came home two days early to clear out the water. When the repairman returned the following week, they couldn’t finish the work because they didn’t have enough of the materials. I’m still waiting for them to return.
Now onto issues of this week. One evening while sitting on the couch, I heard something fall somewhere in the house. I searched high and low in the entire house and garage but found nothing out of place. It was just very odd. At three thirty the next morning, I was awakened by a very loud noise in my house. I though for sure the furnace, which is twenty three years old, was dying. And I assumed that the water I heard sloshing around was from my dog taking a very long drink of water. But no. The dog was asleep on the bedroom floor, and the furnace wasn’t running. After walking down the hall, I discovered that the washing machine had somehow turned on and was running. In the middle of the night. Apparently washers are very loud when they are running without dirty laundry in them. And it is a very startling and disconcerting feeling to wake up to this situation. Especially when the washer isn’t a smart machine and can’t be programmed. And this is a brand new washer. I must say. It took a while before I was able to get back to sleep. I was never so glad to see daylight that morning. After doing some research on this brand of appliances, I learned that this is a common problem. Yikes.
For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever! So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever. 2 Corinthians 4:17-18
And when I stepped out of the shower the next day, I noticed the ceiling around the shower head looked odd, so I reached up to touch it. It was wet. There’s a leak somewhere. So much for taking showers in that bathroom at present.
Oh. And our senior dog was recently diagnosed with a disease that causes her to want to eat and drink a lot. This means she has to take frequent trips outdoors at all hours of the day and night. Now I’m getting up with her and going out once or twice a night. Every night. I can’t even get a good night’s sleep and can’t even think of sleeping in. We’re up between 5:30 and 6:00 most every morning.
As I type this, only a couple hours ago, while sitting on the couch I saw a mouse in the living room. Now I don’t feel safe sitting on the floor. And my sick dog is very needy and wants me to lay with her multiple times a day when she isn’t feeling well. I’m no longer comfortable slipping my feet into shoes because a mouse could be in there. And I’m not comfortable moving around the house in the dark not knowing if a mouse will scurry across my path. I just wonder. How many mice are in this house? Don’t worry. I’m taking steps to rid my house of those rodents.
What is my life coming to? I know. I know. First world problems. These are minor inconveniences in an otherwise quiet and easy life. But man. Can this type of fun just stop? I’m ok with boring. I write all this as if these are the only problems of the day. They’re not. They’re momentary distractions that can be fixed.
In saying all this, I’m not meaning to complain. I’m just stating facts and trying to keep a positive attitude. My life’s circumstances could be very difficult, and I’m thankful for my home and all of life’s blessings. We felt God guiding us every step of the way in orchestrating this move, and we know we are very blessed. Life has its ups and downs. I’m living in a home that wasn’t well maintained for many years by previous owners, and I’m the recipient of the consequences.
Similar problems can happen in our spiritual lives if we don’t build and maintain a close relationship with God. We need to confess our sins and root out all the bad habits, ungodly attitudes, selfish desires and lustful thoughts. We must keep our spiritual house clean and in a state of constant readiness for Jesus’ return. Otherwise, we’ll be in a heap of trouble on the day he does return unannounced, and we’ll miss the eternity of a lifetime with him.
If we don’t keep a close relationship with Christ, we’ll find ourselves in situations we never expected. We may find ourselves compromising our morals and ethics in life-altering way. We’ll be constantly cleaning up messes and emotions that are out of control when we don’t put our faith in God as our first priority. And we’ll wonder why our life is so messed up. It doesn’t have to be that way. Deliberately sacrificing our will to Christ on a daily basis will keep us walking the path of freedom and grace. Our lives won’t be perfect, but we’ll live forgiven.
We must pray because our days are uncertain. We must live as if today is our last day. We must keep our spiritual house in order. Our world could change in the blink of an eye. And who is ready for that?
So let’s pledge to keep a clean spiritual house. Let’s read our Bible and pray on a daily basis. Let’s meet and fellowship with like-minded believers. Let’s live obediently to Christ’s commands. And then let’s all meet in heaven someday where we will feast and celebrate for eternity.




